I know this cycle is the most painful part of our TF journey and seems to be the thing we struggle with the most and that struggle in turn can damage the very thing we are trying to save.
The 8 reasons this author gives for the constant cycle of coming together and tearing apart are as follows -again read the entire article with the full explanation at the link above.
- You aren't ready.
- You haven't reached unconditional love
- You feel threatened
- You reconnect for reassurance
- You reconnect to heal one another
- You must balance your karma
- You are destined for other relationships
- You need to focus on your own awakening
8 comments:
One of the most accurate Twin Flame articles. Simple, yet poignant.
Thanks,
Mairi
Thank you Mairi, I try my best to support all the twins best I can. <3
I needed this, thank you!
What should i do if my twin flame becomes worried and not functioning? Our situation is very complex. He has no idea what is happening to him. I can sense his energy, and when im not around he becomes depressive and it scares me. It got to a point that i could not function, i called him and he instantly eased up and we both have been ok, since. But i feel the tension, again, and i know hes going to fall apart, again. I also know i have a lot of work, towards our future and he needs to process and really figure out what he wants from life. Being with me will be a huge upheaval to his entire life.
Should i reassure him that im not moving on, despite separating? I didnt, originally, i wanted him to do this on his own. But he is debilitating both of us. How do i go about this, without being totally upfront with whats going on? I want to give him the allowance to do what he needs, even go into another relationship, if called for. Which is why i said nothing, despite him wanting it, desperately. I love him agape ad infinitum. There is no selfish need. But i also cannot see him fall apart, like this. Any insight?
Your article actually comes from my website http://www.twinsoulmates1111.com
Anonymous said...
This sounds like Love Addiction... that he is the love addict. Look it up... there are lots of information about this.
This article really sounds like mine situation... when we were together past two years, my emotion was not available, so she ran away... and now with another guy... Now, that my emotion is available and ready, she is not with me.... story yet to be told... are we twin-flame... will there be reunion?
TS can you leave the link to the article itself? I'll take down most of it from here and just link people there. :-)
It's a well written article and serves the twin souls well I'm so glad to know where it comes from finally!
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